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As For Me and My House Podcast
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As For Me and My House Podcast by Jordan and Milena Ciciotti.
Throwing Away Her Entire Wardrobe at 17 - Modesty with Joana Sosa
Have you been feeling a nudge towards dressing more modestly but don’t know where to even start? We often overcomplicate modesty while failing to see the heart behind it. The way we dress and carry ourselves as women of God is an outward expression of inward transformation. In today’s episode Milena sits down with Joana Sosa, a modest fashion influencer who has been instrumental in helping Milena embrace a modest wardrobe by proving that modesty can still be stylish! Joana shares her journey from intentionally showing off her body in revealing clothing, to throwing away her entire wardrobe at 17, and how she truly encountered God right in the midst of it all. We all have to start somewher...
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Honoring Toxic Parents
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“What if my parents aren’t deserving of honor?” “You don’t know what they did to me!” You’re right. We don’t know your exact story and we’re not claiming to. The truth is our parents will not always be deserving of honor. And yet the truth is we’re called to honor them anyway. In this episode we publicly acknowledge the mistakes that we’ve made regarding honoring our own parents and what honori...
Submission… It’s Easy to Get It Wrong with Feminine Not Feminist
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Why is the word “submission” so taboo in today’s society? What does submission *actually* look like according to God’s word? Formerly known as Feminine Not Feminist on IG, today we hear from Anneliese as she recounts her struggles with submission early on in her marriage. From an unhealthy view of submission, to learning how to respect her husband, Anneliese shares how she relied on God’s word ...
Stop Letting Other Kids Raise Your Kids
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Who has the most influence over your children? Whose voice does your child value the most? As parents, we’d love to think it was us, but more often than not, it’s actually other children. Peer-centered settings in school, church, and extracurriculars have created an environment where our kids are surrounded by children their age for the vast majority of their days. What’s the problem with this?...
Don't Waste Your Waiting - Singleness with Alia Jones
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Practically speaking, what does preparing for marriage look like? How can we use our singleness to set ourselves up for success in marriage? In this week’s episode we bring back our good friend, Alia Jones, to share her journey to contentment in singleness while still contending for her future marriage. For many, our 20s can feel like an awkward space between grieving where we once were, while ...
We Can't Keep Outsourcing Our Kids' Education
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We Can't Keep Outsourcing Our Kids' Education
Your Child's Behavior Isn't The Problem with Ginger Hubbard
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Your Child's Behavior Isn't The Problem with Ginger Hubbard
Dear Parents, the World is Lying to You
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Dear Parents, the World is Lying to You
Trusting God Through the Heartache of Miscarriage & TTC with Brittany Dawn
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Trusting God Through the Heartache of Miscarriage & TTC with Brittany Dawn
Q&A - 5 Years of As For Me And My House
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Q&A - 5 Years of As For Me And My House
Sure Ways To Have A Failed Marriage
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Sure Ways To Have A Failed Marriage
Why Now Is The Best Time To Have Children Featuring Now That We're A Family
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Why Now Is The Best Time To Have Children Featuring Now That We're A Family
Glorify God With Your *Entire* Life
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Glorify God With Your *Entire* Life
Speaking Life and Death Over Your Children
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Speaking Life and Death Over Your Children
Juicy Q&A - Sex Toys, Social Homeschoolers, and More
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Juicy Q&A - Sex Toys, Social Homeschoolers, and More
Why We're Not Celebrating Halloween
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Why We're Not Celebrating Halloween
The Spirit Realm Part VIII: Post-Flood Nephilim
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The Spirit Realm Part VIII: Post-Flood Nephilim
The Spirit Realm Part VII: Pre-Flood Nephilim
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The Spirit Realm Part VII: Pre-Flood Nephilim
The Spirit Realm Part VI: The Third Rebellion
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The Spirit Realm Part VI: The Third Rebellion
Married Life & Parenting So Far with Josh and Sav Alexander
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Married Life & Parenting So Far with Josh and Sav Alexander
Amen!!!!!! This is facts.
Thank you for this!!
Christianity has a lot to do with indoctrination.
With our little one we do a 25 day advent with the Shepherd's Treasure (highly recommend) to search for baby Jesus and she gets 3 gifts just like Jesus was gifted 3 things. This includes making a cake or cupcakes to prepare for His birthday.
I wear leggings as a base layer in winter, but I totally get the extra sensory issue. I also wear thermal bottoms. I would highly recommend legwarmers as an option for layering, not only are they helpful for keeping warm, but legwarmers are also very accessible and can be easily removed or added on when needed.
One night I went to the store late at night and there was a woman sitting in the parking lot. And something in my heart was telling me to talk to her and invite her to my home. But being over cautious of course I hessitated to talk to her, besides saying "Hello" as I walked passed quickly into the store. But I couldnt brush off the feeling like I needed to talk to her and possibly invite her for dinner. So I hurried along the store grabbing my items, and thought Ill come outside and Ill do it, ill talk to her. I was only in the store for 5 min or so, so I assumed she would still be sitting there alone.. But when I walked out to my suprise she dissapeared . To this day I wonder if she was an angel, I missed to invite
Honoring parents should be for parents that are honorable. Talking about the issue with a close friend is only slander if it's false. Sometimes you need to talk about these things in order to process them or they are going through something similar and want guidance or to just hear they aren't alone. I think you guys should read Matthew 18 where Jesus gives clear directions on how to gain a person back after they have sinned against you and "If the person still refuses to listen, take your case to the Church. Then if he or she won't accept the church's decision, treat that person as a pagan or a corrupt tax collector." He also says to forgive debt and talks about a king who forgave a servant but that servant wouldn't forgive one of his servants of the debt he owed. So he was thrown in jail. Jesus says to forgive from the heart but says nothing about having to have a relationship with them.
Thank you again!!! Life changing
My miracle baby is an IVF baby and I’m blessed God gave me her . ❤
I’m just grateful to find you for this video related God. I just got miscarriage since August 2, 2024 for my 4th baby on 10 weeks 4 days pregnant 😔 I have similar to Milena’s situation. I have 3 children with healthy pregnancies until it’s my first time miscarriage….
Two of my favorites! Such a treat!❤ thanks for sharing 🫶🏼
Not to mention comments like that are usually always from people that are for pushing CRT and gender theory in schools. “How dare you raise your children according to your beliefs! Only we can dictate what your child hears!” They literally don’t see the irony in that either. The left has let it slip time and time again by saying things like, “they’re OUR children” umm no ma’am these children are mine and you will not get any where near them with your upside down thinking!
As a parent to 2 boys yes honor and respect but my kids DO NOT OWE ME A THING I OWE THEM EVERYTHING
I love you both and your content but I don’t feel as tho your qualified to speak about the nitty gritty of “true toxic parents” and how or what a the child should do however cause going through real actual abuse mentally and emotionally and mainly physical abuse then to go from parental abuse to spousal abuse by any means Dragged acrossed the floor by your hair for eating a bag of m&ms by a evil step father beaten with a belt to the point that their is welps thrown into walls and shamed and humiliated for wearing makeup cause your insecure of acne then proceeds to slap me so hard called me a whore and then told me I would be 15 barefoot pregnant cause I wore makeup I also got dragged by my hair For putting lines in carpets when vacuuming who then groomed your baby sister and then an uncle who groomed both baby sister and middle sister and one time also groomed me did not know what it was but I knew something off and never had any contact with him ever again then to deal with the fact that both parents stole my biological dad inheritance and I was only 18 and my mother is a walking contradiction said one thing did another and stole my dads red car she had no business HAVING KIDS THE ABUSE SHE BLAMES IT ALL ON MY EVIL STEP FATHER AND SAID THAT HE TRIED TO UNALIVE ME AT ONE POINT WITH A KNIFE AT MY ESOPHAGUS (throat) I have to word my comment a way so it doesn’t violate their stupid rules the list continues to go on I WILL NEVER TURN TO BE LIKE THEM THEY GET GRACE IN CERTAIN AREAS MY FORGIVENESS TO THEM DOES NOT MEAN YOUR GOING TO GASLIGHT CONTROL MANIPULATE ME AND PUTTING MY FOOT DOWN AND YOU CROSS THE BOUNDARIES WE ARE DONE ITS LIKE YOUR 50 yrs old and she refuses to take accountability she also gets angry over the stupidest things getting angry over a spoon being on the table is not something to be angry over getting angry over a popped tire yes it’s frustrating that is a reason she thinks discipline is a smack across the face and belt whooping sometimes she will go as far as a extension cord which I have seen her do I threatened her with cps for hitting my baby brother with an extension cord I even told my mother when she was taking the belt and and spinning Bethany my sister at the time hitting her till my sister was turning blue from holding her breathe getting welps on top of welps and the bruise turning to straight up blue cause it broke blood vessels OVER A F**king necklace THEN SHE TURNED TO MY BABY SISTER AND I STOOD IN FRONT OF HER I SAID I WILL THROW YOUR WHITE ARSE OUT THIS WINDOW IF YOU DARE TOUCH SARAH she didn’t I said you and the belt will leave via the window and I will smile for mugshot she put the belt down I just hugged my middle sister she still blames David told her too otherwise he would have unalived all of us I said “you could escape my biological father who almost unalived me supposedly that I have no rmemory of but you could not say “NO” to David so no the amount of abuse was passed down to mom and everyone has effing trauma or abuse SEEK THERAPY AND TRUAMA REHABILITATION BEFORE YOU JUST OPEN YOUR LEGS AND HAVE KIDS FOR THE LOVE OF GOD DO NOT HAVE KIDS PERIOD IF YOU CANT TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY IN THERAPY MYSELF TO BE AWARE SO MY KIDS NEVER SUFFER THE WAY I DID
Keep in mind Me and my siblings are all safe and have our own places and little to no contact with any family member this happened all when I was a kid up until I left at 19 yrs old told them all to EFF OFF
Interesting takes . I would love to see more diversity in those you two collab with.
I literally love following both of you guys!! You both are such an inspiration to me!! Every video you post gives me conviction and the confidence to keep on dressing modesty and really diving deep into Gods word!!
The book of Enoch is so blasphemous and not of God!! Having said that, love this podcast and series. Learning a lot! So important to understand the spiritual realm to understand our spiritual warfare! Also, the Authorised Version (KJV) is the only true word of God. That's a whole study in itself! Recommend Sam Gipp, Peter Ruckman, Gail Riplinger, as well as just Googling Kjv vs other versions to compare scriptures. Other versions all come from the Roman Catholic church and attack key Christian doctrines such as hell, eternal security, Jesus' deity etc
I love the sound of homeschooling but I don't feel like I have the time and it's not really a necessity. In the Netherlands we are blessed with schools that are basically an extension of the church you go to... I hope it will last... aren't there any christian schools in the US? How does that work?
There are private schools in the US but they usually cost a lot of money, so they are usually sent to public school if they are unable to homeschool them.
The “truth” lol ok cute
as long as you keep the same energy about people who choose to teach their kids about black and queer history, feminism and socialism.
How do you teach your homeschooled preschoolers socialize?
Amen!
The difference between what you’re doing and what some other parents are doing by sending their kids to school to be taught is that you are giving them one perspective of the world and claiming it’s the only truth, then blocking out the other perspectives by framing them as untrue meanwhile in our school’s kids get taught a variety of perspectives. I’m a current high school student and I’ve been taught about theology and the history of the world throughout my school life and these teachings are approached always from a variety of perspectives and possible truths. I haven’t been indoctrinated because I have the choice to believe in any of those perspectives and won’t be limited for that - only questioned by my peers and teachers if my belief in any of these perspectives takes a turn that ends up harming others or disrespecting them or becomes inherently extremist and harmful. For example, in science we are taught about the theory of evolution but we aren’t indoctrinated into thinking that that is inherently the only truth - we are simply told by our it teachers that this is a theory that the scientific method has come up with that explains many things about our earths existence and we have a choice on whether or not we take that as what we belief based on the evidence - meanwhile, in Christian spaces, it is drilled into children that god is the only truth and the only explaination and children are ostracized or belittled for thinking otherwise or bringing up the other alternatives and exploring the different alternate perspectives - leaving no room for inquisitive thought otherwise and limiting a child’s view of the universe. That’s indoctrination. Sorry for the ramble, I just don’t like seeing people completely misunderstand and misinterpret indoctrination to their viewership just because it feeds their narrative. As a young person, I’m glad to have the variety of perspective I’m getting in secular schooling from my parents and teachers that your kids likely don’t get from you.
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Milena and Jordan, I don’t know if you’ll ever read this comment, but I hope you do. I’ve been thinking a lot about you two since the horrific attempt that was made on 13 July. I know Jordan was close to him at one point in time. I remember the prayer that you and Jordan prayed for him back in 2020 during one of your podcasts. You called him your friend and to be honest, I feel as if he’s mine too albeit I never knew him personally. I can only imagine how the two of you felt when you heard the news, especially Jordan. We are under spiritual attack and it was clear that day that God was watching over that special man. God bless you and your family.
Hey Milena! I truly love listening to what the Lord is doing in your family’s lives, it is so encouraging. Thank you for continuing to share. I will say I’ve been wrestling with this and wanted to bring up two areas of concern. In reading Ephesians 6, I think contextually it is speaking to children that are not of an age to speak for themselves. In John, when Jesus heals the blind man they ask his parents as a witness in which his parents respond that he was of age and could speak for himself. There’s so much scripture about a man leaving his household and finding a wife where they become one flesh. A woman submits herself to the authority of her husband. I think we are to financially care for our parents once they reach a certain age per 1 Timothy 5:4. I’m not in support of cancel culture in anyway and definitely do not think it is pleasing to the Lord when we mock or scoff at the older generation by calling them “boomers” or anything of that nature. I just think that we need to be order to reconcile scriptures when Jesus talks about in Matthew that he did not come to bring peace but to divide households.
Hey Milena! I truly love listening to what the Lord is doing in your family’s lives, it is so encouraging. Thank you for continuing to share. I will say I’ve been wrestling with this and wanted to bring up two areas of concern. In reading Ephesians 6, I think contextually it is speaking to children that are not of an age to speak for themselves. In John, when Jesus heals the blind man they ask his parents as a witness in which his parents respond that he was of age and could speak for himself. There’s so much scripture about a man leaving his household and finding a wife where they become one flesh. A woman submits herself to the authority of her husband. I think we are to financially care for our parents once they reach a certain age per 1 Timothy 5:4. I’m not in support of cancel culture in anyway and definitely do not think it is pleasing to the Lord when we mock or scoff at the older generation by calling them “boomers” or anything of that nature. I just think that we need to be order to reconcile scriptures when Jesus talks about in Matthew that he did not come to bring peace but to divide households.
I needed this episode!! I'm Orthodox and slowly working my way back to a healthy relationship with God. After leaving my ex who was abusive and manipulative, controlled what I wore, I went the opposite route and dressed promiscuously. Reframing what modesty means to me in the process. I'm single and pray God would will me to have a husband, but my heart is telling me that the first step he wants me to take is to dress more modestly.
ever since going to an all girls boarding school for two years I stopped wearing underwire bras. back when I was in a mixed class and outside of school I wanted to attract guys attention when wearing bras. I watched a video by jasmyne theodora in which she said it's better not to wear underwire bras. I sometimes wear those trainer bras for certain dresses or shirts, but I hardly ever wear normal bras anymore.
I've always preferred wearing dresses, but before I got saved I did wear crop tops and shorts, but since I got saved I just naturally dress more modest. recently I've felt like swimming in a swimdress rather than a bikini. I think it's different for everyone. I used to wear skinny jeans, but I don't really wear them anymore. I do wear leggins, but I feel more comfortable wearing a dress or skirt over them.
Being a PK doesn’t make you a Christian, we raise our children in “the way” but they still need to have a real experience of salvation that’s their own. Until then, God is the God of their parents, and they still need to get saved, and then Jesus becomes their God. Salvation is the experience that changes lives, mindsets and behaviors, not rituals or clothing, that’s a result.
THIS! 💛 Great job parents! These are the parenting tips we should be sharing with one another 🙌🏼 may He continue to bless your family.💛 in Jesus name, amen.
So edifying. Thank you so much for your ministry. Praise God. -Mum of 3 under 3
Milena I know what you're saying about your son. You want to set a godly example for what your son should look for in a wife. And also setting an example for what your daughter's should be like when they're grown. So no I wouldn't think it's too much to dress modestly and godly at home.
"There is a difference between covered and modest" That was powerful and I wish Jona would have expnded on that!🕊🔥🌈💕
I thought there’d been agreement to not utilise the term “parents”. Or am I failing to contextualise?
I agree. We need more people giving away all their wealth to the poor and dedicating their lives to serving others. Also more love and less hate. Jesus is based af, bruv. I think the world would be a much place if we took his words into consideration more often
There’s actually a child listening to this 😄👑❤️🙋🏽♂️
Hi Milena! I loved this conversation! My family and I are Pentecostal as well and growing up, as we got older my mom was always modest in and outside of the home! She wore either a long shirt over her pajama pants that covered her butt or wore a nightgown because I have two brothers and my mom felt convicted wearing something that may potentially cause them to stumble in any way as we all got older. I hope that helps, seek the Lord on it!!😊❤
I’m all for raising our kids in the faith and teaching them our beliefs, but I think it’s important to do so in a way that creates space for questioning and critical thinking.
@@emilycarr2983 raise your kids in a church if that makes you happy. But don’t think it is your right to force my child to learn your faith at school. I don’t want my child to learn that women are cursed because of Eve, or excuses why you think your book makes it ok to harass gay people or the slavery was ok. We are not going backwards with you. Separation of church and state says you can’t force us to adhere to your radical ideology. You do you. Leave my kid out of that drama.
@@emilycarr2983 you can do that at church. You don’t get to force the children of other people who don’t believe in the Bible to participate and indoctrinate them to a faith that isn’t wanted. Trump and the GOP have made crystal clear that religious doesn’t mean honest law abiding or trust worthy. We are not going back to the dark ages with you.
Muslims are great example . They give me a lot of ideas
I literally had a disagreement about this with my dad, then I explained this and he ended up agreeing lol
and yet this is their main complaint about schools. because as we all know teachers are much more focused on shooting your kids with the trans ray even though they struggle getting those same kids to turn in their homework. fucking stupid.
Reading comprehension is so underrated. You should try UNDERSTANDING your subject before speaking. It's about controlling YOURSELF not your kid! It's about setting a HEALTHY EXAMPLE of how to behave and react.
As for me and my house we shall serve the Lord❤
Wow, I know this was 1+ year ago but I swear I felt the pain of that room and how the Lord is using both of you in this 1 hour of listening to you today. Today I moved out of my old place and honestly, a low income salary, low finances, and this unexpected moving situation has made me feel at my lowest of lows. I’ve doubted God and today, the stress of the move made me start making a plan of all the ways I was going to run away from God and go back to my life before Christ. After hearing y’all share about this loss and grieve it with much wisdom, one line shifted my view (and maybe saved me from becoming an atheist). “Don’t run from God, run to God.” If you can run to the Lord and run to Jordan like that, I’m pretty sure I can run to God like that. Thank you Milena, Gabby ❤
Amen!!! ❤
This is so weird but I feel like I know Alia, did you happen to graduate from MSU? And work for CAMP migrant student services in quarantine? I was a freshman at that time. This was a great conversation. I learned and was reminded of a lot. Thank you for your vulnerability.
I felt how you ladies did for a long time about being more comfortable at home and I still do for to an extent but I have geared myself way more to even modesty in front of my children. Even though we are rising children in a Christian home, they are still going to walk their own walk with God and there is so much wickedness put before their eyes, maybe not in this moment but when they go into the world. We can’t perfectly protect them from worldly thoughts being put in their heads. Whats the scripture about the son who looked away from his father’s nakedness and he was righteous? I’m so grateful for your ladies. Only chatting here about my recent years changes. I am a mama and my eldest is 13, youngest 10. I stared modeling that modesty is for everyone, in front of everyone except our spouse who is to be in union as one. And it sets a defined line that also sets their body boundary firm to not be groomed for improper relationships with any family member that could be struggling with an unknown sin. I am only providing these thoughts because you ladies opened your hearts to ask about it. And in case these things I’m seeing for my own family, might be something you could use for yourself or someone else in your witnessing journey. God bless lovely souls.
Religion is just their outfits for them 😂